Thursday, October 9, 2008

One Good Buddy

So, there's a new person in my life. Lets call him...The Rookie. He's not really a "friend"...more like a buddy...a Cuddle buddy. But, with less cuddling (if any), and more kissing.

Rookie is 20, cute, and basically just started "messing around" with guys...hence, the name "Rookie". We met a few weeks ago at a club (a 21+ club) when his only "gay" friend came and talked me because Rookie was too shy. We exchanged numbers, talked later that night, and decided to hangout for a little bit that next day.

Rookie isn't really "boyfriend" material for me. He's not "out" and he's going through that whole period of trying to figure out his sexuality. But, he's a good, sweet guy, and I don't mind giving him a place where he can feel comfortable. And, to also educate his ass....because the boy knows NOTHING.

Anyway, the first time he came over, we just chilled and talked for a little bit. We made-out before he left, and that was the start of our "cuddle buddy" relationship. The last two times he came over (a total of three so far), have been white hot. We might not have "sex" sex, but, we definitely get things "popping" on the Oral tip (pun lightly intended). Basically, we have a ton of foreplay and affection and 69-ing jacking off...which is great! Its actually very hot. There's this whole "thing" of us feeding off of each other's sexual energy.

Anyway, after the cum stops flying, he cleans up and casually leaves like a criminal fleeing a crime scene...which, for some reason, is alright with me. I mean, he gives me what I need for the time being and leaves. There's no attitude, no expectations...no strings. He's the perfect man...right? Except when he spills his "baby batter" on my BLACK blanket.

On one hand, I feel some kind of empowerment. Being in control of what happens, teasing all those special "spots", and being able to make someone go absolutely wild with ecstasy is a pretty damn good feeling. On the other hand, I can't help but feel somewhat hooker-esque (which I don't mind & think is kind of hot). I mean, for some reason, he reminds me of a "John" who's all tense at first because he's not sure of how things are supposed to go. But, when things get started, and he's gotten to his comfort zone, the freak comes out.

Either way, this is all very interesting to me. And, I think that everyone should experience this type of dynamic with someone, it some point in their life.

;-)

6 comments:

Joey Bahamas said...

That's all very hot. I've had "relationships" like that before and they're great to get you through the dry spells. Communication is key though and so are boundaries...because before you know it, and it never fails, someone is going to catch some feelings...especially if one party is...wet behind the ear. Enjoy it though...I know I would!

JB

Darius T. Williams said...

DEAD @ baby batter!

fuzzy said...

Ummm I dare somebody to spill their baby batter on my special blanket! I will cut him!

I feel slightly behind everyone else. I need my life to go a normal speed and move like everyone elses!

Unknown said...

yeah I have done it...it is cool but definitely somewhere you should NOT make up your home...

bLaQ~n~MiLD said...

I like him. He's a keeper! LoL.

~Damnit!

Anonymous said...

yeah...but than yah want more
and yah want him to be more
out and his personal shit prevents
him from that....so all i can
say is watch your heart and
good luck with that manchild